Thursday, January 30, 2014

Finding Time and Motivation

  I asked my friends what they thought I should write about this time.... they suggested finding time to work out and how to find the motivation.
 
Let's start with Motivation
  It is very hard to find motivation to make changes to better yourself and even more difficult to recover when a slump hits. Slumps happen. It is so much easier to put on weight then take it off or I would be a size 1!
  So, you say you want to lose weight. You want to get healthy. But, you are too tired. Work too much. You don't have time. Sound familiar?  Guess what....there is no such thing as a magic pill, no quick fixes, no easy way out. sorry. I made the same excuses for years and eventually put on so much weight until it became painful to move. Vicious cycle. More weight, more pain, less activity.

First thing first.... Setting a specific goal.
  You made the decision to change. Now, you have to set a goal. What is it you really want? What do you want to accomplish most? Focus on that goal. Does not have to be 100 pounds! Start small! Set a goal that you can achieve in baby steps. Like 25 pounds. Still a big chunk of weight but easier to get to and it is on the way to 100. It is extremely important to know what you are working for. The vague "lose weight" doesn't work. Promise. You have to be able to track your progress to prevent or decrease the likelihood of hitting a slump and giving up.  SET THE GOAL.

Write it down, post it and share your goal.
  Once you have a clear cut goal, write it down. We post on social media everywhere we go, everything we do, all our complaints and now you can use this vice as an accountablity tool. When you have a reminder daily of your goal, you are more likely to keep on track and jump back on when you get derailed. Yes, I have had "friends" on facebook say some rude and downright hurtful remarks about me posting my workouts, weightloss and accomplishments. But, my really good friends who have supported me offered reassurance when I needed it most.And encouragement for those awful plateaus that come with the territory of weightloss. Get excited about your workout and accomplishments. Others will join in.

Find inspiration and make it a date.
  When you get excited and share it with friends you help inspire them. You can find inspiration in blogs, magazines, and from eachother. No one likes struggling alone and everyone wants to feel accomplished. So, find a fun activity and ask others to join. While it may take awhile for your enthusiasm to catch on, you may just be the final push someone else was needing! Doing an activity you enjoy and getting results is something others will notice! For example, Zumba. I love it! I am not good at it and laugh at myself constantly but I have a friend who has asked if there is a class on Friday evenings so we can go together. I found one at one of the Y branches so we have the date set. I am excited to jump back into my old routine and share it with another friend.

Make it a routine.
  Now that my friends have started joining me it has made the classes more fun. Someone to laugh with and sweat it out with, makes a huge difference. Making our classes (and the ones I do on my own) routine helps establish expectations. It helps eliminate the "too busy, no time" excuses. I know I have yoga on Saturdays and Mondays. Even though there are days I just don't want to go....it is part of my day. After a 12 hour day on Mondays at work, I have an hour of yoga before heading home. My TRX buddies know we belong to eachother every Friday morning. Instead of sleeping in on our day off, we get up,  work out and laugh through the pain.  We look forward to the posts after, when we can complain together about sore bodies and the rotations we struggled with most. We also can band together and poke fun at our other co-workers too lazy to join us. LOL.

No more couch potato.
  I was so happy when they joined in TRX with me. It is not easy getting people off the couch. Let alone on their days off! So, it means a lot to me that they keep coming back for more. However, I completely aware that not everyone can make it into the gym. However, the anti-couch potato movement does not have to be a group outing or a trip to the YMCA either. Start small. Start slowly. As time goes on, add more minutes to your work out. A work out is not defined by work out clothes, clearing the livingroom of furniture and going crazy. It can be small movements as long as you are moving. Lifting cans of soup while getting your tv fix. Or perhaps, when making dinner, stand away from the counter so you can lean forward and do standing push-ups off the countertop. After dinner go for a walk around the block. Take the kids, walk the dog, just move. I also recognize weather and other factors can keep you stuck inside. So, before thinking you have to give up tv bc it is going to lock you in the couch potato mode, remember the soup can weights? Oh yeah. Well, try this, when a commercial comes on, get up and do jumping jacks. 5 to 10 minutes of jumping jacks can burn 90 calories for a 150 pound woman. The more you weigh, the more calories you burn for the exact same excersize! If jumping jacks is too much for you right away, go for leg lifts while watching tv? The options are limitless.

Finding time.
  Some people get up early to make time.  Not me. I am NOT a morning person! The most important part part of finding time is that the work outs don't have to be long. 5 minutes a day is still 5 more than if you did nothing at all. Wear a pedometer or one of those new Fitbit bracelets that tracks everything you do. Then your goal is to best yesterday and tomorrow to be better than today. It all adds up. Someday, what was impossible today will just be a warm up. I am not exaggerating! When I started working out back in October I could only do 5 minutes on the bike before my back was looking me and I could not even get the elliptical machine going. Now I go an hour on the bike and 15 minutes on the elliptical. For me, that is a huge difference. It only took 3 months to get there.  But, don't over do it! If you push to hard too quick you could hurt yourself. Pain holds us back from so many things. Leads to discouragement and failure.

Success.
  Squish negative thoughts and tell the haters to get a life! There are so many more of us to support you and don't let the morons bring you down. They need you to stay the same because they are not strong enough to change themselves.  Think of the benefits you are trying to achieve instead of the difficulties.  Not always as easy as saying it.  I complain a lot when I get discouraged but I see my friends supporting me and I use the hateful remarks as my fuel. I want, no NEED to prove them wrong! Show them I can do this and they can't hold me back.  I've got this. You can too. Just need to believe you do. Thank those who have been there and continue to be. They are the ones worth your time. YOU are worth the time. 

86 Ways To Motivate Yourself To Work Out by FitBodyHQ.com

86 Ways To Motivate Yourself To Work Out

By FitBodyHQ - November 27, 2012 - MotivationMotivating yourself to work out often takes more than just willpower, so we've put together the best tips to help you get motivated and stay motivated, the easy way.

Let’s Talk About Motivation…

We already know why we should be working out: getting healthy, looking good, burning fat – all that good stuff. And if you’re anything like me, then you also already know that you can have the best of intentions, but if it’s not fueled by motivation, then you’ll be sitting on the couch stuffing nachos into your mouth while youthink about working out berate yourself for not working out… instead of actually doing it! And yes, I amspeaking from experience.So it’s pretty clear that motivation is pretty important stuff, at least if you ever want to get anything done, but like the ever-inspiring Jim Rohn said: “Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going”. That’s the missing piece for a lot of people, so a good idea is to think in terms of building new healthy habits because if you think about any of the habits you already have, they’re not hard to do, in fact they probably require little to no motivation at all.Right, so now that you know the end goal (healthy new habits) how the heck do you actually get there?! Good question, and as luck would have it, I’ve put together some of the best advice, tips and techniques to help you get motivated to work out and form those healthy new habits, which in turn will lead you step by step to getting what you want in the first place. So when you’re ready to get motivated, read on!

86 Awesome Tips to Motivate Yourself to Work Out

Find your ‘Why’

The secret to motivation is finding a compelling enough ‘why’. It doesn’t matter what your reasons are, what’s critical is that they’re important enough to you. Without a good enough reason, you’re not going to be motivated long-term. Write down why you want to achieve your fitness goals – they can be anything, from improving your health to looking great naked – write them down and read them every single day. If they don’t motivate you, you need to dig deeper and find the reasons that do.

One goal at a time

Everyone knows that achieving anything worth its’ salt takes effort, so the fastest way to sabotage your success is to spread yourself too thin by trying to do too much at the same time. In my experience, trying to multitask you goals just doesn’t work – in fact, it requires exponentially more effort. It’s the same with your fitness goals. Write down the goals you want to achieve, prioritise them and then do one at a time. Trying to lose weight, gain muscle and change your diet all at the same time is going to be very tough and you’re much more likely to throw the towel in when things get tricky. So if you’re doing that and you find that your motivation is waning, cut down your goals to boost your motivation. That doesn’t mean you forget about the other goals though, remember you want to establish new habits, so once you’ve got to the point where, for example, working out 5 days a week is a habit then you can move onto a different goal like changing your diet.

Be a fitness role model

Set the example for your children, your family, your friends.

Find the passion

If inspiration is the spark of motivation, passion is its’ fuel. Passion is going to see you through the setbacks you inevitably face on your journey towards your fitness goals (or any goals for that matter). Passion is something you can cultivate. In fact, in my opinion, it’s essential to getting where you want to go. The secret is finding the reasons which light you up, and these are uniquely your own; you’ve got to find what works for you. A good way is to start by finding the things you can feel passionate about, for e.g. maybe it’s looking sexy, or being healthy, and use these as a springboard to much greater motivation. The key point is that passion isn’t passive, it’s something you need to actively cultivate.

Make it visible

You’ve heard the saying: out of sight, out of mind. So it’s no surprise that the opposite is true too. Whatever your fitness goal is, write it down or print it out and put it everywhere you will see it. Great places are: bathroom mirror, fridge door, pantry door, by the computer screen (you could even set your desktop wallpaper to have your goal). Also have a place where you can easily see the progress you are making. Don’t just do it on the computer, make it physical: print it out and pin it somewhere!

Make a fitness vision board

Vision boards are a great way to get inspired, keep your goals visible and get creative (here’s a good example).

Turn off the T.V.

Come back when you’ve done your workout.

Commit… Publicly!

Sticking to your work outs requires commitment. One way you can increase your own commitment to working out is by making a public declaration to people in your life. This makes you publicly accountable so it’s much harder to slack off because you don’t feel like working out that day. Just make sure you tell people who are going to support your goals, not hinder them.

Buddy up

One of the most powerful ways to ensure you stick to your workouts is to buddy up because you will motivate each other. Not only that, but you increase your own commitment and accountability. Buddying up really shines if you have a low-motivation day, they’ll usually be able to get you motivated to work out anyway. Just make sure you buddy up with someone who is as committed to your shared fitness goals as you are – choose your buddy well!

Build anticipation

Leo Babauta has said that one of the tips that has boosted his motivation is to build anticipation for the goal rather than starting immediately. So mark a date in your calendar, say a week from now, as your fitness start day, then spend the week planning your workouts and getting inspired! By the time your start date arrives you should be bursting with motivation to work out.

Focus on your progress

Instead of thinking about how far you’ve got to go, think about how far you’ve come. Tracking your progress and before photos help a long way with this.

P.U.S.H.

Persist until something happens. It’s easy to stay motivated when you first start something, or when you’re seeing results. The trick is staying motivated when you’re not yet seeing results. The important thing to remember is that even if you don’t see it yet, every workout is bringing you closer and closer to the goal you set yourself when you first started. Push past wanting to give up and just keep going.

Start really, really small

The smaller you start, the easier it is to get it done. Take the pressure off and set your workout goals really small. For example, how about just 5 minutes of exercise a day? Too much? Then make it 3 minutes. The most important part is that you do it every day, same time, same place – give it some structure. The next week, try adding another 5 minutes per day.

Dive in to the deep end

At the other end of the spectrum to starting really small, is diving in to the deep end. For example, say you want to start working out, instead of doing just a few minutes each day, you throw yourself into the deep end and commit to doing 45 minutes for 5 days of the week. After that week you ease up to 20 minutes every day. Since you’re used to doing 45 minutes a day, maintaining this reduced level will be easy. Keep this going for a week or two and then jump into the deep end again. Rinse and repeat. The idea is that you take on a level you purposely can’t maintain yet and do it for a brief, but intense period of time; when you drop back down you’ll have made much greater strides towards your goal. The added benefit is that you may surprise yourself and find that jumping into the deep end was actually easy, in which case, set yourself a bigger challenge.

Attract more hotties

Need I say more? Yes? Ok, you’ll also have better sex and look great naked. Boom.

Surround yourself with motivated people

Maybe you’ve heard the saying: “Who you surround yourself, you become”. It doesn’t matter if it’s business, fitness or any other endeavour – the people you surround yourself with is one of the biggest predictors of success. You need to surround yourself with people who are going to support your fitness goals, not hinder them – this may mean making new friends, and dropping old ones. Having trouble finding people? Use YouTube! Find videos that get you motivated, e.g. here, here and here. Use what works for you!

Read about it

Immerse yourself in fitness and you’ll be much more motivated to work out. One of the best ways is to read fitness blogs so that you can follow along with other people who have the same goals as you. Get involved in the fitness forums. Subscribe to fitness websites so that you get daily motivation sent straight to your in-box.

Phone a friend

Low on motivation? Phone a friend and let them tell you that you’ve got exactly what it takes to do this workout! You might want to give them a heads-up before you start doing this, and you can return the favor with their goals.

Eat healthy

The healthier your diet, the more energy you’ll have and the more motivated you’ll be. This includes getting enough food, because food fuels workouts!

Focus on the positives

If you dwell on the things you hate about working out, you’re not going to be motivated to work out. Makes sense. By the same token, dwelling on the things you love about your workouts is going to get that motivation flowing. When you start, there may only be a few things you love about it, it doesn’t matter – focus on those – over time you’ll discover more and more. The other thing you want to do is after your workouts, make sure you spend at least a few minutes bathing in all the feel-good chemicals as well as the positive emotions. Do this after every workout – really appreciate the work you’ve done, no matter how small.

Find Your Mantra or Slogan

I love this tip from Sid Savara. You can repeat this mantra/slogan to yourself whenever you need to boost your motivation. Find a mantra that works for you, for e.g.: “You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great.” or “Make yourself proud.” or create your own. For added power, whenever you feel particularly motivated, say your mantra/slogan three times with feeling (inside or outside your head) and also just before you start and after your workouts. This way you condition your mantra/slogan as a psychological trigger to get back into your motivated state of mind.

Get into the Zone

That state of Flow when everything is effortless is so prized by top performing athletes, that they train themselves to enter it on demand. You wont get into the zone while you’re just starting your workouts, but after a while, once you’re familiar with the exercises you can find yourself entering the Zone. Things which help with this is listening to the same music each time (make sure you choose your playlist well), having everything at hand, minimizing distractions and immersing yourself in the workout for a brief, but intense period of time.

Simplify!

When things are too complicated it can be hard to get motivated. The solution is to cut out as much as the complexity as you can; simplify everything. Or in the words of Albert Einstein: “Make things as simple as possible, but not simpler.” So, if you’ve got a lot of complexity around your workouts, including logistics or anything else, simplify it!

Transfer time

Our time is limited; each of us has just 24 hours a day. So you can’t make more time, all you can do is transfer it from one activity to another. If you want to work out, you’ve got to carve out the time to do that, which means some other activity is going to have less time. So you need to work out where that time is going to come from. Unless you do this, you’ll be setting yourself up to fail.

Turn it into a routine

If you hate routines, I hear ya! But it turns out that they work really well, so get some structure with your workouts. Work out at the same time, same place and on the same days and you’ll be more likely to turn working out into a habit.

Make your workouts non-negotiable.

When you don’t feel like working out, sometimes you’ve go to forget about “feel like it”. Sometimes you simply need to suck it up and just do it.

Tiny steps to success

Instead of trying to make big strides, spaced far apart, take tiny but much more frequent steps towards your goal. For example, if you’re doing squats you could add a single rep each time; for running, add an additional 30 seconds. The idea is to add tiny increments (which actually seem too easy) and to do it consistently – small, consistent steps add up to big results.

Worst Case Scenario / Best Case Scenario

Here’s a way to put your imagination to use in getting you motivated. Imagine the worst case scenario if you don’t work out today, then on the other hand imagine the best case scenario if you did workout today. The trick is not to make them realistic, but to let your imagination run wild and have a sense of humour about it.

Think short term & long term

Sometimes the key to getting motivated is as simple as changing the time frame. For example, if you don’t feel like working out today, imagine what the short-term consequences of that would be, as well as the long term consequences of not working out would be. Check your motivation. Then imagine the short term results of working out today and the long term results of working out. Check your motivation again.

Remember those endorphins

Exercise floods your body with feel-good chemicals – it’s a natural high and it’s perfectly legal! Just remembering how good you feel after a workout, is a powerful motivator.

Use your workout to get inspired

Many people use their workout time to get inspired about other areas of their life. There’s something about exercise which clears your mind and promotes new ideas. I’ve heard from many people that they’ve done their best work while running, swimming or on the treadmill.

Make it fun

If you don’t have fun while you’re working out it’s going to be pretty hard to turn it into a habit. That’s why it’s so important to do the kind of exercise you really enjoy – it’s not all about the gym or the treadmill. There are enough activities out there that you’re bound to find one you love. Home workouts are awesome because they are so accessible, so try those too. The other thing you can do is make your workouts as fun as possible – it’s up to you to find the fun, no one else can do it for you. Give your workouts a crazy name like: Operation Sexypants – get creative.

Focus on the sexy

Sure, working out is good for your health, but who doesn’t want to look sexy? And sexy is what happens when you make working out a habit. Sometimes you just need to think about how sexy you’re going to look. Vain? Maybe. But does it work? Absolutely!

Challenge yourself

One of the best ways to get more motivated is to set challenges for yourself. The best person to challenge is yourself, so aim to improve your time, the number of reps you do, or the weight you’re lifting. You can also set challenges like working out every day for a week, or eating clean for the week.

Get off the Internet

Come back when you’ve done your workout.

Count those calories

Counting calories is a great motivator because it gives you something to work towards each day. It’s also one of the most effective ways to lose weight which, when combined with your workouts, will speed you towards your fitness goals.

Admire some bodies

There’s nothing wrong with ‘miring some bodies. Seeing people who have worked to get the kind of physique you want for yourself is very motivating. Transformation photos are especially motivating.

Get involved in the fitness community

Immerse yourself in the community and don’t just sit on the sidelines, get involved. You’ll make new friends and you’ll be much more motivated to work out.

Reward yourself

Reward yourself with things which support your fitness goals. So if you’re trying to lose weight, don’t reward yourself with a tub of ice cream after a workout – that doesn’t support your goals at all! Instead make a list of things which support your goals, put them in a jar and reward reward yourself immediately after each workout and when you reach fitness milestones. Rewards can be anything, from time on Pinterest to new workout gear – get creative!

Buy new workout gear

Set yourself a workout milestone, like working out 45 minutes, 5 days a week, for a month, then reward yourself with new workout gear when you hit it. Not only will you look great in your new gear, but you’ll look sexier in it from all the workouts you’ve been doing.

5K, Marathon, Triathlon

Committing to a 5K, marathon or triathlon is a great way to get fit and keep motivated. Especially if you’re doing it for charity and have sponsors who you’d let down if you didn’t do it.

Get a personal trainer

Getting a personal trainer is one of the best things you can do for your fitness, not only will they keep you motivated, but you’ll also learn the correct form for the exercises your doing… and prevent injury down the line.

Find inspiring transformations

Transformation photos show you what’s possible. You can do it too.

Log your progress

Sometimes it’s hard to see how far you’ve come; having a log of your progress let’s you know. Tracking your progress is a sign that you’re serious about your fitness goals, so if you are, make sure you do it.

Pay yourself

Every time you do a workout put a dollar into your workout jar.

Take your before picture

Changing your body composition is a relatively slow process, you could be making amazing strides towards your initial goal, and yet not realize it because you’re used to the way you look now. Sometimes, it’s only when you look at where you were, what you used to look like, that the results of all that hard work are visible to you. There’s nothing more motivating than actually seeing progress, so take progress pictures!

Use technology

Try some of these great apps which help you to stay motivated and form new habits.

Weekly weigh-ins

You probably already know that it’s not about weight loss, it’s about fat loss. The scales can tell you if you’ve lost weight, but they can’t tell you how amazing you are. Still, seeing your weight go down can be motivating, just don’t get hung up on it – body measurements are a much better indicator.

Think health

Exercise is good for your health – that’s all there is to it. It’s not a luxury; it’s a necessity. So if you want to be able to play with your kids, or see your grandchildren one day; if you want to be active into your old age, then you must do at least a moderate level of exercise most days. Don’t wait until you can’t, make the time now.

Blog about it

What’s even better than reading fitness blogs? Writing your own fitness blog! By really committing, and putting yourself out there, you prove to the world and yourself that you’re serious about your fitness goals. Not only that, but you start to inspire and motivate others, and there’s something amazing about that – you become much more motivated too.

Motivational quotes

A good quote can do wonders for your motivation. Pinterest and Tumblr are great sources of motivational quotes, but take it a step further and print them out, write them down and stick them everywhere you’ll see them. Collect your favorite motivational quotes and when you need a boost, read through them until you feel sufficiently motivated to do that workout.

Summer, Weddings, Reunions

If your motivation is low, remind yourself how close you are to Summer, a wedding or a reunion. Events are a great way to keep your motivation strong.

Accept compliments on your progress

Don’t dismiss the hard work you’ve been doing; dismiss negativity. Accept the compliment and use it to reinforce your motivation. Next time you feel low on motivation, you can remember their complement to get you motivated again.

Get a great workout mix

Music makes a huge difference to your motivation, get a workout mix you love, pop those headphones on and be motivated!

Keep your workouts fresh

Variety is the spice of life. It’s no different with your workouts. If you’re feeling less than inspired by your workout, spend some time switching it up – make it fresh and exciting again and your motivation levels will soar. Always work out in the gym? Try some outdoors workouts. Only do cardio? Lift some weights! Work out alone? Invite a friend.

Update your playlist

Remember to rest

Sometimes we can get low on energy and motivation if we over train, so remember to take rest days. Most people only need 1 or 2 rest days a week.

Keep workouts flexible

If you make your workouts too rigid, it’s going to put you off doing them when your motivation wanes. So instead make them flexible – e.g. if you workout 45 minutes a day, but today you only do 20 minutes, that’s okay. The most important thing is to work out consistently and cut yourself some slack. I’d much rather give 20 minutes of full intensity than 45 minutes of wishy-washy intensity.

Motivation follows a rhythm

When you realize that motivation ebbs and flows, when it’s low you know it’s temporary – pretty soon, maybe even in a few minutes time, it could be flowing again. Rather than feeling bad, you can take those ebbs as opportunities to get inspired again, take a rest day, or just do it anyway.

Plan to succeed

To keep your motivation levels up, make sure you spend time each day imagining what it’s going to be like when you finally reach your fitness goals, the steps it’s going to take and most importantly, how you were able to overcome setbacks easily.

Keep a fitness journal

If you write it down every day, it’ll be on your mind every day and you’ll be more motivated to keep it going.

Eliminate fitness obstacles

Aim to reduce or eliminate everything that impedes your workouts. If you don’t workout because you forget your workout gear, make sure you get it ready the night before. If you get home and you don’t want to workout, workout first thing in the morning. If you spend too much time watching T.V. or on the Internet, work out before you do those things. Whenever you miss a workout, spend some time working out why and then see if you can eliminate or reduce that obstacle for the next time.

Make it a 30 day challenge

Steve Pavlina recommends doing 30 day challenges (he calls them trials). This is a great idea because you commit for 30 days and then at the end of it you decide whether or not you want to continue. It’s a great way to get motivated, because it’s a short enough time that you can commit fully to the challenge and there’s no pressure to continue at the end of it unless you want to.

Find your rhythm

Some people find it easy to work out in the morning, others can only do it at night. If you find it hard to get motivated to work out, try changing when you do it and see if that gets you more motivated.

Don’t think, just do

Stay physically active through the day

It’s much harder to get motivated when you’ve been sedentary the whole day. To prevent this, make sure you stay active. Go out for your lunches, take active breaks, stretch and do mini-workouts. When it comes time to work out you’ll be much more motivated.

Workout before you relax

If you work out when you get home from work, don’t sit down and turn on the T.V. Make it a priority to get your workout done immediately, before you have a chance to relax. Get it done first and you’ll feel great and enjoy your relaxation much more.

Keep it on your mind daily

Spend time each day thinking about why you’re working out in the first place. Remember those reasons which were powerful enough to get you motivated and spend some time going over those. Spend time thinking about what you love about working out, find anything, as time goes by you’ll find more and more things you love about it. If you’ve made visible progress, spend some time feeling good about that; anticipate further progress and look forward to that… after your next workout!

Get your gear ready and visible

You’re much more likely to work out if you have your workout gear with you, or it’s visible. Get it ready the night before, so you can’t use not having it as an excuse.

Unmotivated? Do as much as you can

If you’re feeling unmotivated, don’t skip the workout, just do as much as you can. At the very least, put on your workout gear and get outside. If you workout at home, get the workout ready. If that’s as much as you do, that’s fine – the point is to do as much as you can and then test if you could do a bit more. For example, I heard of someone who will put on their workout clothes and drive to the gym, with no intention of working out, but by the time they get there, they’re find that they suddenly have the motivation they need.

Take a gym class

Create workout rules

Rules allow you to be flexible while still being accountable to yourself. For example, you may have a rule that you can only have 2 rest days a week, this way you know that if you miss 2 days because of lack of motivation, you have to make them up that week. Having rules makes it less a question of motivation and more about things you have to do, so remember to make it fun.

Make the alternatives worse

Not motivated to work out? How would you like to do chores instead? One of the best ways to get off your butt, is to give yourself a worse alternative to working out, so doing the workout actually becomes a no-brainer.

Make it cost you

Every time you miss a workout, pay someone a dollar. Or, if you want to up the ante, give someone $20 at the start of the week and instruct them to only give it back to you if you do 5 workouts that week. Just make sure they’ll actually give your money back afterwards!

Exercise in the morning

When you exercise first thing in the morning you don’t have time to be unmotivated, the trick is to wake up and immediately put your workout gear on. Working out in the morning sets you up for the whole day, you’re already feeling good for having done it, you’re more likely to eat clean because you’ve just done a workout, which means you’ll see faster results and be more motivated. Win, win, win. Just keep that snooze button far away enough that you have to get up.

Prepare for setbacks

Setbacks can seriously derail your motivation. However, one thing is certain, you will face setbacks on the path towards your fitness goals. Knowing this you can prepare in advance to bounce back when they happen. Don’t look at them as an all or nothing proposition. For example, at some stage you’re probably going to get a cold, instead of letting this derail you you can plan to use this time to rest, recover and get inspired, so that when you get better you’re ready for action again. Obviously you can’t prepare for every setback, but just knowing that you can bounce back after they happen, can help you stay motivated.

Haters want you to fail

Got haters? They want you to fail. Use them to motivate you.

Bust your excuses before they happen

Write down a list of all the excuses you’ve used to miss a workout, then write down why it’s an excuse and not a reason to skip this workout. Next to that, write down how you’re going to get over it. Put it somewhere visible, so the next time you make an excuse, it’s right there on the paper.

Hold yourself to your highest vision

Don’t settle for a second-best version of yourself. Hold yourself to the highest possible vision of yourself that you can. Would the highest vision of you skip this workout?

Do daily fitness reviews

If you miss a workout, cut yourself some slack. You may have missed the workout, but you can still learn from it. Do a daily fitness review and see what you could improve, what were the obstacles, how could you get rid of them? Turn it into a positive and next tomorrow you’ll be more motivated.

Change the way you see yourself

If you think of yourself as lazy. Stop. Change the way you think of yourself: act as if you’re highly motivated and soon you will be.

Get inspired

Inspiration ignites motivation, so find sources of inspiration that work for you. I love the Health & Fitnesscategory on Pinterest, Fitspo Tumblrs (like this one) and fitness channels on Youtube (like Zuzka Light). Make some time in your day for an “Inspiration Session”. Give it a time limit, like 10 – 30 minutes, so that you don’t spend all your time getting inspired and miss your work out. Inspiration without action is just wishful thinking.

Remember why you started

Use the 5-minute rule

When you lack motivation, just do 5 minutes worth of exercise. Promise yourself that you will always do 5 minutes regardless of how you feel. People often find that when they start, suddenly they find the motivation to keep going.

Micro-workouts!

Instead of doing one long workout, split it up into micro-workouts throughout your day. One 45 minute workout is just three 15 minute mini-workouts!

Be your own fitness hero

You’re the hero of this story. So what are you going to do?

Put It Into Action!

There are enough tips and techniques in the list above to get you out of even the most unmotivated state of mind, but it’s up to you to put them into action. If you persist and push past the times when you lack motivation, soon working out will become a healthy habit. Start seeing yourself as your own fitness hero and make working out part of your life. Be an inspiration to those around you. Start right now.Your turn: How do you motivate yourself? What tips are you going to use? Which ones have you been using, how’s it been going? Let us know!

Monday, January 27, 2014

Learning To Eat: 32 Days After Surgery But Starting Over At Week 1. Ugh!

  Today marks 32 days since I had my surgery.
  Nothing remarkable about this day, just another Monday afternoon but another day I am struggling. I am getting SO sick of hearing idiot people say this is the "easy way out"....live this for a week then you would change your tune! While my road has been bumpy, it hasn't been as tough as some people face. That I will be the first to admit. But, it has not gone exactly as planned either. It is frustrating and discouraging! But, I have no choice.  I just have to keep going. This isn't like some diet you can say "screw it" and go eat a piece of pizza! Well, technically you could but you would be sick as hell and be in a lot of pain!
  There are different phases to Gastric Bypass.  Phases you have to go through before you can eat even semi-normal foods. Even then, you can never just run through a drive thru at McDonald's and order something when you are starving. These phases help keep you from making yourself sick but are there to teach you to, well, relearn how and what to eat. Instead of living to eat, you learn to eat to live.  May not sound like it's difficult.  However, the American diet is crap! There are horrible choices everywhere you look..... drive down the street. How many fast food joints do you count? How many grocery stores? That is what I am talking about....
  Now take in to consideration a few basic restrictions like,  no more than 3 grams of sugar or fat per 100 calories, no more carbonation or caffeine. So, you are out and about one Saturday and you are with friends.  Let's run to DQ because you can at least have a smoothie while your buddies stuff their faces with greasy bacon cheesburgers and fries.... let's take a look at your options shall we? You decide to take the best looking option and go with the Large Light Smoothie because it's "light"....  the large Mango Pineapple Light Smoothie has 260 calories,  68 carbs,  0 fiber, .5g of protein and a whopping 65g of sugar!! Hear the buzzer go off in your head? And that was the "light version".... none of their light smoothies have less than 50g of sugar.  Yummm, water it is for lunch!
Better than eating it, being sick and ending your outing.....  right?
  Now about these Phases.... I should be finishing Phase 4 right now, but after an adverse reaction to a medication sent me to the ER twice last week causing me to spend an overnight then 3 days straight in the hospital the last time.... I am back at Phase 2 :(

THE PHASES
  Phase 1
Start immediately after surgery. Your goal is 1 ounce of water every 15 minutes.  (Worst drinking game EVER! LOL!)

  Phase 2
Usually by the 3rd day after surgery for the next 10 days or so. It is now 4-6 ounces per hour until you can manage 64oz a day. Not so easy when your pouch only holds about 4oz at a time anyway and too but of a drink hurts like Hell! Cold beverages sometimes hurt too. Oh, these drinks are still all sugar free clear liquids.  You have this awful drain tube struggling out of your side for another week and until it is confirmed you dont have a pouch leak, you are kept off any purple or red liquids.
  Other important things during Phase 2
*NO Straws because it can dill your pouch with air and air bubbles HURT.
*NO alcohol. High in calories and due to the rerouting of your intestines you get drunk quick and can be toxic to your liver. Besides,  ever dump alcohol on a fresh wound.... enough said.
*NO carbonation as it painfully expands your tiny tummy. Ouch!
*NO caffeine.  It irritates your pouch lining and unless you want to be on IV feedings for life,  caffeine and Tobacco use is seen absolute NO NO!
*Avoid chewing gum. If accidentally swallowed it can block the new anastomosis (opening to your intestines) and you get a trip back into the OR.
*You may want to use a toddler spoon to prevent large painful bites.
*A sports bottle comes in handy for toting your drink everywhere you go.
*Do not drink past feeling full.
*If excessive fluids come out your drain after drinking or the color is the same as what you just drunk,  call the surgeon immediately!
  Recommended Foods
*Clear, no sugar added juices diluted in half by water.  But, no citrus. 
*Clear broth or bullion.
*Herbal or decaffeinated teas with artificial sweeteners.
*Sugar Free Jello. Remember your pouch is the size of an egg.
*Sugar Free Koolaid or Crystal Light - just no red or purple.
*Sports drinks if less than 50 calories per 8 ounce serving
*Sugar Free popsicles with no fruit chunks
*Clear beverages with less than 10 calories per 8 ounce serving
*Protein drinks like Isopure. But, read the label!

  Phase 3
Starts usually after your follow-up appointment after 2 weeks out.
Goal is still 4-6 ounces an hour to hit that 64oz total each day.
You keep following Phase 2 liquids but you now add protein.  Protein should hit at least 60 grams daily!  It can be tough, but,  this number just like water never changes. If you remember 64/60 daily, you should be okay. It's recommended to break up the protein consumption into 3-6 portions throughout the day so it is properly obsorbed by your body.
  Examples of Protein Sources
*Sugar Free hot cocoa as long as skim milk is added
*Whey Protein Isolate, Soy Protein Isolate or concentrated shakes made with milk.  Other protein types are "incomplete, so they don't count"
*Low Fat Greek yogurt - no chunks of fruit and check the sugar count.
*1% or skim milk (Braum's skim milk has extra protein added!)
*Soups blended to a liquid consistency with milk or protein powder added
*Prepared protein shakes with less than 3g sugar per 100 calories.  I found Nectar powder mixes as well as Premier Protein prepared shakes for this requirement and taste really good.

This is about the time you add a Bariatric Chewable Vitamin.

  Phase 4
Starts from around day 14 thru 27 as you can start adding new foods as you can tolerate them.
Protein always comes first!!!
Some foods people start adding now are
*Cream of Wheat, Cream of Rice and oatmeal with protein powder added
*Low fat cheeses with less than 5g fat per ounce
*Mashed potatoes with no skin. Never fried! Add in protein powder
*Scrambled eggs - make sure they are not dry though
*Pureed foods
*Sugar Free pudding
*Low fat refried beans
*Low fat cottage cheese
Important note ♡Dry Foods Hurt♡ so you may need to mix them with fat free mayonnaise or Miracle Whip, mustards, and/or 2 TB of ketchup, salsa, BBQ sauce and other sauces that follow the fat and sugar rules.
  As you add new foods
*Limit your meals.  No snacking this includes "healthy snacks"
*Pea sized bites and still chew 20 times so it is puree consistency before ypu swallow
*No drinking 30 minutes before, during or 30 minutes after a meal!
*Do Not lie down for an hour after eating
*Protein rich foods always first
*Add only 1 new food at a time to know what you can eat
***If nausea or vomiting occur, start back at Phase 2, if it continues, call your surgeon***
*Most people can stop protein shakes by month 3 if they are getting their 60g through regular foods.
*It should take roughly 15 minutes to eat 1 ounce of food. Over time you can eat in about 45 minutes and eat 3/4 to 1 cup (which is 8 ounces) at a time.  But, the goal is to NOT stretch your pouch or push your limits!

  WHAT'S NEXT?
  After 4 weeks you can add things like deli shaved learn lunch meats, seafood and white fish, and tofu.
  After week 5 it is foods like: cold cereal (watching fat and sugar), toasted wheat bread (white has a tendency to ball-up in the pouch), low great crackers with no seeds, well cooked soft rice, soft vegetables,  protein bars with no nuts.
  Weeks 6-7 get to add in no sugar added canned/skinless fruits (sorry, still no citrus yet), lettuce!!, soy crumbles, ground lean meats like turkey & chicken.
  Once you hit week 8, you get to try pasta but stay away from white sauces as they usually are high in fat. You van venture to untoasted or white bread but watch out for it balling-up in your pouch. Baked poultry or moist white meats are okay but avoid the skin and temptation to fry it. Roasted beef or pork as long as they are lean and moist when cooked. Raw veggies and fruit with no skins are okay and you can even have CITRUS fruit!
Another huge milestone is the ability to swallow pills again! What's the big deal?  Well,  you try crushing pain pills for 2 months.  YUCK! Lol.
If you still have a gall bladder your chances of developing stones goes WAY up, so your surgeon will discuss medications to start taking. You may have to start vitamin D supplements to go waking with the multivitamins that you will be taking the rear of your life.....
  At about 12 weeks,  raisins, grapes and other fruits with peels can be tried. Might even be able to try seeds.

  FROM HERE ON OUT.... no more carbonated drinks,  no caffeine or alcohol for at least a year, must get in 64 ounces of water daily,  60 ounces of protein and those pesky sugar and fat limitations. 

Well, as I finishing my protein shake I will close out this entry for today. For those irritating individuals out there still under the belief this is the "easy way" out...... I challenge you to try this for a week. Only a week and not slip up even once! Granted you will not suffer from Dumping Syndrome if you do screw up, but, I still would love to hear from ypu at the end of that week!  Write down every tiny thing you put in your mouth. Gastric Bypass people write it down so we can see what works and what we never want to put in our mouths ever again!
  This whole new way of life (not just a diet you can quit) is NOT EASY! It is way more than time consuming. You fight dehydration, exhaustion, nausea, constipation, diarrhea, ridicule, stares as you try your hardest at the gym, rude comments from family and friends, discouragement yet in the end, pride....  It is truly a new life!

ARE YOU UP FOR THE CHALLENGE?
Even if you are not planning on having the surgery,  it is an eye opener and when paired with the gym, a great way to drop some pounds. LOL!


Monday, January 20, 2014

My Groundhog Moment

  Today can best be described as my Groundhog Moment. I had a follow-up with my surgeon this afternoon and just like when the groundhog sees his shadow on February 2nd and we can expect 6 more weeks of winter, such is my life. Well, I am now facing at least another 3 weeks off work. Thus, today was my Groundhog Moment. I am not quite through my winter phase of recovery but spring is coming.
  I have been battling nerve pain since waking up from gastric bypass surgery. I have tried several pain meds and besides upsetting my stomach and inducing vomiting (which really SUCKS when you have staples in your stomach) the meds have done nothing for the pain. They did give me pain patches but it intensified the nausea and vomiting to the point I ended up in the hospital for 8 hours last weekend, ugh! So, I am back to square one.
  I do not regret my procedure at all. That being said, I despise the side effects though. I have struggled from day one with balancing the 60 grams of protein I have been told I need daily and the 64 ounces of water. It seems overwhelming when you can only take an ounce or two at a time and it makes you feel ill if you push it. I have been frustrated that I haven't been allowed to work out until I hit my numbers. Well Ladies and Gentlemen,  I have finally hit my numbers!! Despite being sick.
  I GET TO WORK OUT! Granted it isn't going to be the level I was a month ago before my insides were rearranged.  But, I get to work out! Happy dance! I get to add machines slowly as long as it isn't pulling, twisting or straining my middle. Limits a lot of options. I have a plan. Carry my nausea meds with me and hit my classes. I am starting out with Tai Chi and Water Tabata. Less impact but will get my heart rate up. I am still debating on which machines I can start with since all the good workouts use your core muscles. So, arms and legs will be my focus first.
  I have to now go choke down a hideously nasty liquid antibiotic and grotesque liquid nausea medication..... I feel SO sorry for little kids taking medication. It is disgusting! I am so glad my the kids all take pills now.  I dont think I could subject them to this crap anymore. LOL.
  So, even though this is my Groundhog Day, the bright side is a few extra weeks to stay covered up under layers give me a few extra weeks to rock the work out and stop the pounds.  When the warm spring weather comes,  I will be ready!

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Start of my journey. August 24th - December 26th 2013

  Let's just start by saying I was a caffeine addict.  Having at last 64 ounces of Mt. Dew everyday for at least the last 20 years.  In August, I had been told I had dangerously high blood pressure and I made the decision that I was ready to fix me. First thing I did was stop all carbonated and caffeine beverages cold turkey. OMG! The headaches, bodyaches and nausea were AWFUL! But, I can proudly say I have not given in even once. That was just the beginning.
  I have never been a junk food junkie, an emotional or bored eater. Just poor choices and no motivation is what I blame for my size. I started digging through recipes on Pinterest and found that my time was not going to allow much time to experiment since I was working 2 jobs at the time. So, I went straight to the basics. Fresh fruit and veggies for meals and very basic fish and chicken with seasoning. No more butter, no dressings and no sauces. Within the first week or two, I immediately dropped 20 pounds!
  I enrolled in the Via Christi Weight Management Orientation class in late August. I got all the information about Gastric Bypass and started on the path to complete what needed to be done for approval by insurance. I was sitting at about 355 pounds on my first day of Lifestyle Class on September 10th. I knew this was not a "quick fix procedure" before even walking in the door. So, I took notes and paid attention to all the skills they were teaching us. My insurance required 3 months of classes in addition to all the medical guests and psych evaluations before they would make the final approval.  This gave me 3 months to show myself if I could change my life on my own, or if I should go through with the surgery. Every week we had to weigh in and write down everything we ate, how much we worked out and then it was displayed for the whole group to see. I was NOT going to coast through class and expect it to "fix" me!
  I was given a free family membership month at the YMCA so we could try it out. I had been working out 30 minutes to an hour several days a week at the gym at the Cox Call Center where I work. But, it was tiny and was not giving me the motivation I needed. October 1st we walked in to the Y and my love of the gym was born. LOL! I was given 3 free personal trainer sessions with an amazing young woman Named Erin. She had never worked out with someone like me so was extremely sceptical when I told her I was going to be at the gym every single day. Well, I proved those doubts wrong. I missed only 2 days between the beginning of October and three day before my surgery!  I was even at the gym the day I had my EGD (esophagogastroduodenoscopy) procedure done. Just had to wait for the anesthetic to wear off.  Hehehe.
  My Diet? Glad you asked. Here is the basic breakdown of what I was eating daily. 
64 ounces of water or no-calorie beverage
60g protein  *Premier Protein shakes and bars are what I lived on at 30g each bc they are fast & easy.
6-10 cups fresh fruits or veggies
Most importantly: no pop (including diet bc it makes you crave sugar), no carbonation, no sugar (Stevia is a good substitute), no butter (hard for me but I Can't Believe It's Not Butter spray is great. But spray only)
Limited carbs and calories but not the important part.... no counting required.
  My Workout? I started with Erin's help and built up to being there a minimum of 2 hours a day.
Each day was broken down into 2 parts. My machine workout and the classes. I would usually do my warm up on the bike for 30 minutes to an hour before working on the machines.
36 reps of 170lbs on Leg Press
36 reps of 70lbs on Row Machine
36 reps of 35lbs on Chest Press
36 reps of 125lbs on Abdominal Crunch
36 reps of 150lbs on Back Extension
36 reps of 75lbs on Pull Down
36 reps of 50lbs on Pec Fly and Rear Delt
36 reps of 70lbs on Seated Dip
36 reps of 50lbs on Rotary Torso Rotation
36 reps of 50lbs on Overhead Rotary Torso Rotation
36 reps of 90lbs on Outer Thigh Abduction
36 reps of 90lbs on Inner Thigh Abduction
My weekly 1 hour classes were the best part!
Mondays Yoga
Tuesdays  Zumba and Tai Chi
Wednesdays  Zumba
Thursdays. Tai Chi and Water Tabata
Fridays  TRX Suspension Training Boot Camp
Saturdays  Yoga and Water Tabata
Sundays  were my light day. Only did an hour on the bike and my machine work out.

  In a few months I dropped 80 pounds. I felt AMAZING!
Immediately after surgery my blood pressure was normal!
I am currently on restrictions from working out due to dehydration and I am on a liquid/soft food diet because of my surgery. But, eventually I will be back on my diet. It will never be the volume of foods I ate before, but the destination is worth the journey. The best is yet to come!

This is My Story

My name is Kimberly and this is MY story. 
 I don't pretend to be an expert. I just know what finally worked for me after a lifetime of battling my weight. I have bounced between being thin for brief periods of time to being obese for most of it. I have had eating disorders and moments of complete misery that brought me to where I am now. 
 At my biggest, I topped the scale at 375 pounds. August 2013 was the turning point. After turning my life upside down to change my diet and become a workout junkie (we are talking minimum of 2 hours every single day at the gym)... in 4 months I dropped 80+ pounds!  But, it was not enough. 
 I went through all the testing, psych evalutations and lifestyle classes to be approved for Gastric Bypass Sugery. On December 26th 2013 I underwent the surgery and now I am starting a new chapter! As of today, it has been 18 days since surgery and recovery is slow. I am 8 pounds away from the 100 pound loss mark and I am not giving up now! I have dropped from a size 34 pants to a 22. My shirts have gone from a 4X to a 2X. 
 Right now I am taking baby steps while recovering but the fun is about to begin! 
 This Blog was at the request and support of my friends. It is MY journey, that hopefully can inspire someone else.